THE WALL OF FACES

Thank you for serving our country. May you rest in peace.

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

Warrant Officer Ralph Milton Havnaer, Served with the 240th Assault Helicopter Company, 214th Aviation Battalion, 12th Aviation Group, 1st Aviation Brigade, United States Army Vietnam.

Milton was my 2nd cousin. I never knew him, I never know of him until I googled my last name and found his story. He was from Charlotte and I from Hickory,NC. I too was a Viet Nam era Navy pilot, off USS AMERICA..flying mostly in North VN IN 72 thru the end of the war in 73. I read the accident report...what a waste of wonderful men. I have spoken to another 2nd cousin of mine who knew Milton and said he was a Prince of a Fellow. I really look forward to meeting him when I transition upstairs!

Dear WO Ralph Havnaer,
Thank you for your service as an Utility & Light Cargo Single Rotor Helicopter Pilot. Today is Easter Sunday and Passover. The war was years ago, but we all need to acknowledge the sacrifices of those like you who answered our nation's call. Please watch over America, it stills needs your strength, courage and faithfulness. Rest in peace with the angels.