THE WALL OF FACES

I met Doug first when I was 6 years old, but we didn't really connect until we were 11. From then through High School, where we ran Cross-Country & Track @ PHS, we were best friends, We were drafted together, went thru training at Dix together. That was where we diverged. I went to McClellan & then straight to Vietnam. Doug went to officer-training, so we arrived at different times. But we came home almost together. Me on a Freedom Flight from Ton Son Nhut, Doug in a box a week later. Those were my formative years & his as well. Wherever you are Brother, I know you are still happy. I wish I was.

Doug and I were both drafted in 1969 and went to basic training together. Even though we lived near each other we had never met until in the Army. I remember how he was very nervous about our situation. We became friends in basic, but never saw each other again after that and I was shocked to learn of his death when I got out of the Army.

Sergeant Douglas Edwards Ayers was awarded the Bronze Star Medal for Valor, with Combat Distinguishing Device (V), for his exemplary gallantry in action. He was also awarded the Bronze Star Medal for Merit for his sustained meritorious service. He served as an Indirect Fire Infantryman and was assigned to C CO, 4TH BN, 3RD INFANTRY, 11TH INFANTRY BDE.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

In High School Doug was a quiet, gentle soul. Always friendly and so smart. Thank you for your service to your country, Doug, and rest in peace.